For starters, I must say this. I don’t hate Asian men. I don’t hate black men. I don’t hate Hispanic men. However, I do prefer white men. Over the past couple of days, I’ve read through a few blogs by Asian women who love white men and believe white men are superior to other men. It’s what spurred this blog entry. According to Urban Dictionary, WMAF means, “A cringeworthy coupling between an Asian girl and a white guy in which they spend more time denigrating Asian men to justify their relationship than actually being happy together.” When people use this acronym, they typically assume that the Asian girl is insecure about being Asian and is desperate to be white. They also may assume it’s a white male fetishizing Asian women. I think this may be the case for some, but definitely not all. In my case, wanting to be white […]
Sexually Submissive
Being sexually submissive is not like a new style. I find that’s not something that I can just decide to change about myself. It’s a part of who I am. It’s not really a preference. It’s not like saying I prefer gaijin men. It’s simply me being me. I have a great Dom, but I’m also dating a vanilla. Someone had suggested that since the guy I’m dating cannot dominate me, then I must dominate him. It’s not that simple. I’m not sexually dominant. I never have been. I’ve tried to Domme for someone, but it just wasn’t me. It was forced and I didn’t enjoy it. It was awkward and I felt like it was a bit suffocating. I don’t get off on power. I don’t get off on having sexual control. There’s also the fact that D/s relationships also require some consent. I can’t just start trying to […]
It Takes Time and Effort
A D/s relationship is like any other relationship, it takes time and effort. It requires a bit of commitment and availability. I was asked what are the most important traits for a Dominant to have and what traits would make someone want to be a good submissive. Going through these questions, I realized that most people think submission is given overnight. It’s not that easy, fellas. You can’t simply expect a girl to submit just because you demanded it. Like the graphic states, as a submissive, I require more attention than the average girl. As time goes on, I think I’ve become even more needy or clingy. My Dom gives me that attention. He takes the time to get to know my needs, my desires, my fears. I can be a tough nut to crack so can you imagine how much more time and attention he’s needed to give me. […]
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What Makes Me Sassy
Sassy. According to Oxford Dictionary, sassy is an adjective meaning, “lively, bold and full of spirit; cheeky.” YourDictionary.com adds “a little feisty.” I don’t have a new poem for you today. I’m feeling a bit under the weather so my brain is not working at 100% at the moment. I’ve been trying to write a blog post for hours and it’s been difficult. This is a poem from a little over a month ago. It explains me as a sassy submissive. If you’ve interacted with me, what do you think makes me seem a bit sassy? Yours Truly, The Sassy Sub Daily
I Need You
“A sub needs to feel wanted. A Dom wants to feel needed.” This has been something on my mind this week. I’ve never been one to enjoy the spotlight, but lately I’ve realized how much I crave my Dom’s attention. It makes me feel wanted. In the past, I wasn’t one for clinginess or neediness. I think after my ex, it became that way. My ex wanted to use me (meaning he wanted to be a lazy ass gold digger), but he never really wanted me. He didn’t care about me; he only cared about himself and how he could benefit from me. He made me feel like shit all the time. I was always worried he would cheat on me (I shouldn’t have had to worry about that though because he had ED and couldn’t get it up). I needed him to man up and care for me, but […]
He Undressed Me
Vulnerability. It’s never been something that I excel at. Even before the rape and abuse, I was rather closed off. I’d only let a few people in and even then some of those people proved to hurt me over and over again. Some of them backstabbed me and I cut them from my life completely. I’m normally the kind of person who gives multiple chances despite what everyone else tells me to do. I forgive and forgive until I break and can’t take it anymore. Then you become a ghost who once haunted my past, but can no longer take from me. When it comes to this life in particular (meaning my sex life and my D/s relationship), it is a secret. This is why my name and identity are not tied to this blog or the place in which I met my Delicious Dom. I’m rather afraid of people […]
I’m Not a Domme
A couple of times, I have been asked to be a Domme. I’m brutal, but I am not a Domme. I’ve got a mouth on me and it’s easy to see. I don’t submit very easily, but I’m not a Domme and I’m not even a switch. I’ve tried to be a Domme once because a guy begged me. He didn’t do anything I asked, he just wanted someone to make him cum. I know he didn’t suck a cock, when he wanted his own to be sucked. He was lying to me and that is a big pet peeve. It was annoying and having to deal with him was a chore. Being a Domme isn’t for me, I find it to be quite a bore. I’m more into the surrender. I like giving up control, eventually. It’s a bit of a battle to get me there, but once you […]
