For starters, I must say this. I don’t hate Asian men. I don’t hate black men. I don’t hate Hispanic men. However, I do prefer white men. Over the past couple of days, I’ve read through a few blogs by Asian women who love white men and believe white men are superior to other men. …
Sexually Submissive
Being sexually submissive is not like a new style. I find that’s not something that I can just decide to change about myself. It’s a part of who I am. It’s not really a preference. It’s not like saying I prefer gaijin men. It’s simply me being me. I have a great Dom, but I’m …
It Takes Time and Effort
A D/s relationship is like any other relationship, it takes time and effort. It requires a bit of commitment and availability. I was asked what are the most important traits for a Dominant to have and what traits would make someone want to be a good submissive. Going through these questions, I realized that most …
What Makes Me Sassy
Sassy. According to Oxford Dictionary, sassy is an adjective meaning, “lively, bold and full of spirit; cheeky.” YourDictionary.com adds “a little feisty.” I don’t have a new poem for you today. I’m feeling a bit under the weather so my brain is not working at 100% at the moment. I’ve been trying to write a …
I Need You
“A sub needs to feel wanted. A Dom wants to feel needed.” This has been something on my mind this week. I’ve never been one to enjoy the spotlight, but lately I’ve realized how much I crave my Dom’s attention. It makes me feel wanted. In the past, I wasn’t one for clinginess or neediness. …
He Undressed Me
Vulnerability. It’s never been something that I excel at. Even before the rape and abuse, I was rather closed off. I’d only let a few people in and even then some of those people proved to hurt me over and over again. Some of them backstabbed me and I cut them from my life completely. …
I’m Not a Domme
A couple of times, I have been asked to be a Domme. I’m brutal, but I am not a Domme. I’ve got a mouth on me and it’s easy to see. I don’t submit very easily, but I’m not a Domme and I’m not even a switch. I’ve tried to be a Domme once because …