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The current challenge for Tie Me Up Tuesday is a loop chain thigh high by The Dutchy. It seems simple, but I had a hard time with this tie. THE PROBLEM WITH A THIGH HIGH I’ll just say it how it is. I have fat thighs. There is no thigh gap. And at one point …
When it comes to flogging, I don’t have a whole lot of experience. I’ve only been flogged by one man and now that I look back on it, maybe I shouldn’t have let him do that without really knowing him. WHAT I THOUGHT ABOUT FLOGGING Before being introduced to the world of BDSM, the only …
When I first became Sir’s sub, he made up a game called Swanky Hotel Squirt. It wasn’t exactly something he ordered me to do, but more so a humiliating little game for me to play. SWANKY HOTEL SQUIRT – OG STYLE It was the weekend I became his sub when I had to go to …
“As a submissive, you’re in control.” They say the submissive holds the power in a D/s relationship because the submissive has the whether or not they will submit to the Dominant. In that sense the submissive is in control, though, many times, it may seem as the the Dominant is in control because the submissive …
The current challenge for Tie Me Up Tuesday, is an arm restraint. Two versions require a partner and the one version was meant to be a self-tie. THE ARM RESTRAINT This is how the arm restraint is supposed to look. There was a link to a YouTube video for the tutorial, but I found myself …
“The heart sometimes doesn’t care about limits.” – Kristen Ashley When I was looking up quotes about limits, I saw many that stated limits in friendships is not a real friendship. I also saw quotes talking about how you shouldn’t have limits, but I think that’s dangerous. You put them in place to protect yourself …
When I read the prompt for No True Way, nothing really came to mind at first. I guess I didn’t really have too many thoughts on whether Dom and sub should be uppercase and lowercase. But then I remembered lover talking about abusive behaviors in some ‘Beta’ males and it got me thinking about hierarchies. …
The current prompt for Mrs Fever’s Summer Writing Project is, “Out.” I thought to myself, “What comes to mind when I hear the word, ‘out’?” It didn’t come to right away, but suddenly a poem I had written in December came to mind. LOOKING OUT There was a time when Sir and I used to …
“I’m bound to you, not by ropes and strings, but by hopes and dreams, like the moon is to tides, the Jupiter is to rings, ordained by the physics of everything.” – Sabah Saleem ROPES THAT BIND The first time, I attempted the Shibari Kuma tie, I did it without anything on. Crotch ropes are …
“I do not need to belong to anyone but myself But I’m choosing to belong to you.” – Marie Jo Schwarz I think that most people, if not all, have a desire to belong to someone or to something. Whether you’re an introvert or extrovert, you most likely have a longing to be a part …