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“As a submissive, you’re in control.” They say the submissive holds the power in a D/s relationship because the submissive has the whether or not they will submit to the Dominant. In that sense the submissive is in control, though, many times, it may seem as the the Dominant is in control because the submissive …
The current challenge for Tie Me Up Tuesday, is an arm restraint. Two versions require a partner and the one version was meant to be a self-tie. THE ARM RESTRAINT This is how the arm restraint is supposed to look. There was a link to a YouTube video for the tutorial, but I found myself …
“The heart sometimes doesn’t care about limits.” – Kristen Ashley When I was looking up quotes about limits, I saw many that stated limits in friendships is not a real friendship. I also saw quotes talking about how you shouldn’t have limits, but I think that’s dangerous. You put them in place to protect yourself …
When I read the prompt for No True Way, nothing really came to mind at first. I guess I didn’t really have too many thoughts on whether Dom and sub should be uppercase and lowercase. But then I remembered lover talking about abusive behaviors in some ‘Beta’ males and it got me thinking about hierarchies. …
The current prompt for Mrs Fever’s Summer Writing Project is, “Out.” I thought to myself, “What comes to mind when I hear the word, ‘out’?” It didn’t come to right away, but suddenly a poem I had written in December came to mind. LOOKING OUT There was a time when Sir and I used to …
“I’m bound to you, not by ropes and strings, but by hopes and dreams, like the moon is to tides, the Jupiter is to rings, ordained by the physics of everything.” – Sabah Saleem ROPES THAT BIND The first time, I attempted the Shibari Kuma tie, I did it without anything on. Crotch ropes are …
“I do not need to belong to anyone but myself But I’m choosing to belong to you.” – Marie Jo Schwarz I think that most people, if not all, have a desire to belong to someone or to something. Whether you’re an introvert or extrovert, you most likely have a longing to be a part …
The current prompt for Musically Ranting is, “Which musician would you sleep with?” Being Fantasy Friday as well, get ready for a wild ride. Sir got me hooked on Nightwish. The current singer is Floor Jansen who Sir thinks is smoking hot. So here is my answer to the prompt in fantasy form. It’s all …
Sir seduced me with written language alone and it’s most likely because I’ve always loved reading and writing. We’ve never talked on the phone and sometimes, not being able to hear his voice makes me a bit disappointed. THE ART OF WRITTEN LANGUAGE Let me take you through a thread in which Sir and I …
Tie Me Up Tuesday’s prompt is a head cage tutorial by the Two Knotty Boys. I guess it falls in the category of face bondage. I was excited to try it and even made sure I had something to hide my face. FACE TO FACE Today marks seven months of belonging to Sir. It is …