“Guys and girls can’t be just friends. Or not best friends, anyway. Shit gets too complicated.” – Lauren Layne
CAN GUYS AND GIRLS JUST BE FRIENDS?
Many people have told me that guys and girls can’t be just friends. I never really believed this because I had several guy friends. The claim was that an attraction of some sort would develop between the guy and girl or there would already be an initial attraction that led to the friendship in the first place.
Maybe I was just in denial because some of my closest guy friends ended up being ones that ended up liking. Several years ago, I had a guy friend who ended becoming one of my best friends. He was always there for me and I confided in him a lot. One day, I told him that I liked him and well that went absolutely nowhere. He’s now married and for the most part cut me out of his life.
But this post is about one guy in particular. Here we talk about someone that I’ve referred to as the Adonis. We crossed the line and maybe it proves that guys and girls can’t just be friends.
ALL ABOUT ADONIS
I met Adonis several years ago. He was smoking hot, but a total asshole. We would flirt to some extent. Although, I’m not really sure I’d call that flirting compared to how he acted around women he slept with. Our flirting looked like bickering in public, chasing each other around the room, and pranking each other.
We were friends, but I had a crush on him. I always knew which girl he was going for and which girl he was most likely successful in taking to bed. It made me a bit jealous that he kept fucking other girls, but then come back and flirt with me. I always thought that physically, I wasn’t his type. Maybe he didn’t like Asian girls or maybe he liked super skinny girls.
So this is what our friendship looked like until he disappeared. I would try to stay in contact, but over the years, life got in the way.
Shortly after I met Sir, Adonis messaged me. He wanted to know how I was doing. This was the first time I heard from him in years and it made me just as giddy as I was years ago. I was curious about why he decided to talk to me so I flat out asked him and his response was that he saw a picture of me. It should have been a red flag, but I was just so thrilled to talk to him again.
GUYS AND GIRLS CROSS THE LINE
He disappeared again for a few weeks so I thought, “Okay. He was just messing around again.” Then he reappeared again and it was clear that he was into me.
One weekend Sir told me that he would be busy, but said that maybe the Adonis would keep me entertained. Sir knew all about Adonis.
Up until this point, Adonis and I were just flirty friends. But I guess guys and girls shouldn’t be flirty friends and expect it to remain as so. Adonis wanted to see me naked so I told him that if we crossed that line, we couldn’t come back from it. He told me to cross the line so I did. I took off my clothes for him and let him see me completely naked.
We masturbated for each other on camera. Oh gosh, his cock is quite amazing. We talked about actually meeting up to have sex. I got my hopes up again. Our naughty little conversations continues for a couple of weeks until he disappeared again. I was a little irritated with him because he taunted me with his cock and never gave it to me. My disappointment subsided quickly though because I ended up meeting lover.
To this day, he has not said another word to me, but he continues to look at my pictures. He’s one of the few people who has seen my face, my naked body, and knows I’m a submissive. Thankfully, he doesn’t know this blog exists and if he doesn’t find it, he won’t be able to trace it back to me.
We crossed the line between friends and who knows what. There was no sex and we’re not lovers so I don’t know what to call it. But my view on guys and girls being just friends changed with Adonis and now I believe there will always be a bit of attraction whether it’s emotional, physical, intellectual or sexual.