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Guys And Girls – Crossing The Line

“Guys and girls can’t be just friends. Or not best friends, anyway. Shit gets too complicated.” – Lauren Layne


Many people have told me that guys and girls can’t be just friends. I never really believed this because I had several guy friends. The claim was that an attraction of some sort would develop between the guy and girl or there would already be an initial attraction that led to the friendship in the first place.

Maybe I was just in denial because some of my closest guy friends ended up being ones that ended up liking. Several years ago, I had a guy friend who ended becoming one of my best friends. He was always there for me and I confided in him a lot. One day, I told him that I liked him and well that went absolutely nowhere. He’s now married and for the most part cut me out of his life.

But this post is about one guy in particular. Here we talk about someone that I’ve referred to as the Adonis. We crossed the line and maybe it proves that guys and girls can’t just be friends.


I met Adonis several years ago. He was smoking hot, but a total asshole. We would flirt to some extent. Although, I’m not really sure I’d call that flirting compared to how he acted around women he slept with. Our flirting looked like bickering in public, chasing each other around the room, and pranking each other.

We were friends, but I had a crush on him. I always knew which girl he was going for and which girl he was most likely successful in taking to bed. It made me a bit jealous that he kept fucking other girls, but then come back and flirt with me. I always thought that physically, I wasn’t his type. Maybe he didn’t like Asian girls or maybe he liked super skinny girls.

So this is what our friendship looked like until he disappeared. I would try to stay in contact, but over the years, life got in the way.

Shortly after I met Sir, Adonis messaged me. He wanted to know how I was doing. This was the first time I heard from him in years and it made me just as giddy as I was years ago. I was curious about why he decided to talk to me so I flat out asked him and his response was that he saw a picture of me. It should have been a red flag, but I was just so thrilled to talk to him again.


He disappeared again for a few weeks so I thought, “Okay. He was just messing around again.” Then he reappeared again and it was clear that he was into me.

One weekend Sir told me that he would be busy, but said that maybe the Adonis would keep me entertained. Sir knew all about Adonis.

Up until this point, Adonis and I were just flirty friends. But I guess guys and girls shouldn’t be flirty friends and expect it to remain as so. Adonis wanted to see me naked so I told him that if we crossed that line, we couldn’t come back from it. He told me to cross the line so I did. I took off my clothes for him and let him see me completely naked.

Guys and Girls - Crossing Lines
One of the photos I sent Adonis before taking it all off

We masturbated for each other on camera. Oh gosh, his cock is quite amazing. We talked about actually meeting up to have sex. I got my hopes up again. Our naughty little conversations continues for a couple of weeks until he disappeared again. I was a little irritated with him because he taunted me with his cock and never gave it to me. My disappointment subsided quickly though because I ended up meeting lover.

To this day, he has not said another word to me, but he continues to look at my pictures. He’s one of the few people who has seen my face, my naked body, and knows I’m a submissive. Thankfully, he doesn’t know this blog exists and if he doesn’t find it, he won’t be able to trace it back to me.

We crossed the line between friends and who knows what. There was no sex and we’re not lovers so I don’t know what to call it. But my view on guys and girls being just friends changed with Adonis and now I believe there will always be a bit of attraction whether it’s emotional, physical, intellectual or sexual.

Yours Truly,
sass c.

Tell Me About - Crossed The Line

sass c.

i'm just your average girl with a dirty mind. young, asian and submissive...does that pique your interest? constantly in a battle with myself whether to stay confined by my cultural values or to break free like the freak i am.

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  1. My, what an inspiring photo, Sass.

    1. Thanks. I had imagined someone spanking my ass, grabbing my hips, then taking me from behind.

      1. Funny thing, that was exactly what I was thinking.

        1. Great minds think alike 😉

  2. Cute pic! One of my best friends is a guy. He told me about 3 years in he was attracted and I laughed in his face! He then said JK and that was the end of it. Remained best friends until I got married and he went into the military! We stayed in contact and I actually attended his wedding 2 years ago! ZERO attraction on my end he was like a little brother.

    1. A lot of my friends told me that it wasn’t possible to just be friends. I wonder if maybe it depends on personality types. Maybe, it is more so true for those who are highly demisexual like myself. 🤷🏻‍♀️

      1. For sure! There are a lot of factors, personality, mentality, attraction…I think it is deff possible, but not very common.

  3. I love this photo and certainly looks like your poking your bum out for a spank!

    1. If only that fantasy could come to life haha

  4. Absolutely love that image, Sass! WOW!
    ~ Marie

    PS: I also love your new meme!

    1. Thank you. I think it had become my favorite then haha. I have series of photos like that haha.

  5. Great image sass, it’s interesting to read your thoughts. I have found that emotional connection leads to a greater sexual attraction, whoever they are really. It’s shame it didn’t go as planned.

    1. Thanks. Definitely a shame, but maybe I avoided a train wreck. I can sort of see that I would’ve just been another trophy on the wall for him. It would’ve been a one and done then he’d move on the next girl.

  6. I love this image of you – what a sexy pose and I agree with you about boys and girls. It should work but my experience always said the opposite. Missy x

    1. Thank you. In my adult years, I’ve had crushes on my guy friends even if they were short lived. Haha. They’ll do something to irritate me or remind me why it will never work and I’ll change my mind. With some of them, I’ve later said, “Actually, he’s kind of gross.” Haha.

  7. I was exactly like you, thinking it was possible, but I think there is always an agenda – even if some parties are in denial about it. I shouldn’t generalise but I think it’s often the guys who harbour a plan of crossing the line.

    1. Yes see! This one guy kept telling me we were friends. I said, “Just friends.” His answer was always agreeable. Until one day he got me drunk and before I knew it he was kissing me and taking my clothes off. I ended up having sex with him and he fell off the face of the earth. He told my other friends that it’s because I was so in love with him and he wasn’t into me. But I recall him saying, “You’re mine. This pussy is mine.”

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  9. I don’t want to be rude, but I think men and women can be just friends only on some particular occasions, and mostly on monogamous, traditional relations.

    I don’t think think I have any boy friends that have never pictured me naked or imagining having sex with me(it’s not my ego, it’s a fact), but that may also be because of my lifestyle.

    Nevertheless, great post. Keep up the good work! 🙂

    1. I guess a lot of times, there’s an unspoken attraction. I’ve found out years later that there were certain male friends of mine that liked me at some point. And there were several that I had a crush on myself. It’s not necessarily a sexual attraction, but some form of attraction. Maybe the emotional attraction that draws friends together can sometimes be confused for other forms of attraction.

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