My Fate Was Finding You

“Sometimes our fate resembles a fruit tree in winter. Who would think that those branches would turn green again and blossom, but we hope it, we know it.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Fate, destiny, if it was meant to happen, it will happen. But perhaps, there’s a chance we can take fate into our own hands.


Dear Sir,

When I first joined getDare in 2013, I wasn’t expecting anything out of it. I only created the account out of boredom because I wasn’t really working much at the time. It was short lived because I was young and still a virgin and the notion of being someone’s slave scared me.

In 2019, I was once again bored out of my mind because I was in pain and many activities exasperated it. So I logged into my getDare account to see if I had received any messages over the years. There weren’t any past messages, but I received an influx of new messages.

One guy messaged me and I became his sub, but he went MIA after a couple of weeks. I didn’t really care because he didn’t mean anything to me. He did tell me about the lounge games so that’s where I went.


I started playing some of the lounge games and for a bit, it was just this one guy and I going back and forth. Then your name started to pop up and we went back and forth in a few of the games. I looked at your profile because I was rather intrigued. You had joined around the same time I did and I even saw a dare you posted back in 2013.

But we never met in 2013. Was it fate for us miss each other back then? Maybe, fate made it so that I would meet you years later when I was ready.


So I took a chance and messaged you. It was ironic because I never initiate and message a guy first. I wanted you to know that I found you hilarious and smart, but the truth is I was drawn to you. Maybe, I was taking fate into my own hands or maybe, fate took me right where I needed to be.

I didn’t think you would respond, but you did. Later, you told me that you normally don’t respond to random messages, but for some reason, you did. Perhaps, fate wanted us to meet all along. Maybe, it knew the connection that would form between us.

The night/morning I became your sub, I took another chance and showed you myself. I took a chance in submitting to you. I’m not sure if you were looking for long term at the time or if I was only meant to be something casual, but it turned into more than just play. I became completely submissive to you.


Over the past several months, I’ve made the choice, time and time again, to open up to you more and more. We’ve always been honest with each other and it’s one of the things that made our bond so strong. But, I was holding back in being honest about my feelings and maybe you were too.

I spent so much time crying thinking that this was the end for us. But, I guess it forced us to be even more honest with each other. So I made the choice to tell you exactly how I felt and fate in that choice was being able to continue our relationship.

You’ve become one of the most important people in my life. And meeting you was the best thing that happened to me. You mean the world to me; you’re my serendipity.

Perhaps, fate brought us together, but I think no matter what fate brings in the future, I will continue to choose you.

With Love,
Your sassy submissive

Image: One of the first photos Sir asked me to take. I was to wear no bra or panties underneath and his name was written on my cunt.

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  1. Beautiful post, Sass, and I love that image, even more so knowing what the fabric is hiding 🙂
    ~ Marie

    1. Haha. I had gone to a party like that. I liked when Sir would make me do things like that.

    1. Thank you. I think it plays a role in how we meet each person that comes into our lives. Some for the better and some for the worse.

  2. 🙌🏼 I believe love is a choice so to choose to love him each day is beautiful. Fate will lay the steps out but we do need to pick up our feet!

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