Tie Me Up Tuesday


I don’t have too much experience with bondage. It was mostly a one time thing, but I loved it. I had been tied to a bed. My arms and legs each tied to different corners of the bed while I was naked and blindfolded. I was flogged and a man then fucked my mouth and cunt. It was very erotic, but the guy was also mentally unstable so that was the end of that. Since then, I’ve always wanted to be tied up again.

My ex had bragged that he was an expert at shibari, but I had never seen him do so. I think that was just another one of those lies he liked to tell me.


Surprisingly, I’ve never used handcuffs. I guess the men I’ve slept with weren’t very kinky because none of them ever used handcuffs on me.

Now that I have some rope, I decided to join in on MLSlavePuppet’s Tie Me Up Tuesday. She had tutorials on how to do rope cuffs. I wish I could do the one that involves a partner, but Sir isn’t here to tie me up so I did the single person tutorial.

I started off with the quick cuffs. I found it to be pretty easy to tie the actual cuffs, but the challenge was taking a picture haha. This was as decent as the picture was going to get.

I, then, did the alternative tutorial with the multi-loop handcuffs. Again, the tie was fairly simple. I only ran into the problem of having too much rope. I didn’t want to cut the rope so it was very long.


I sent Sir the photos last night, but he hasn’t said anything. I was hoping it would get his attention. I haven’t been getting much of it lately. It makes me a bit sad. I don’t even get his daily good mornings anymore. I miss those because it would let me know that he would think of me when he woke up.

Sir likes bondage so I was hoping it would please him. I wish he was here to tie me up instead. Tying myself just seems to feel like I’m bound to my sadness and loneliness.

Yours Truly,
The Sassy Sub Daily

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  1. I am always working to to make my bondage game on point. Doing it yourself is a great way to practice and learn what you like. With that being said you have to understand why having short pieces are good for quick and fast and they are easy to build upon them. Then with longer pieces it nice to have the length but it can become unsafe real quick then have to cut instead of undoing you last piece.

    And colors are nice two picking colors says a lot as well. But I can talk about rope all day long.

    1. This is the first time I’ve self-tied. Well actually that’s a lie, I tried to tie my hands behind my back with a satin sash at Christmas so I could take a picture to send to Sir for Christmas haha. I was able to tie the bow…it just looked so shitty haha.

      I suppose I could cut the purple rope…it’s probably my least favorite color out of the red and black.

      1. Sidebar: You skin looks amazing.

        Cutting the rope makes everything easier to handle and it is just a better solution while being safer. Also when you want someone else to learn on you, you have a better knowledge of what you are doing and what they suppose to do.

        1. Haha thanks.

          I think I’ve got my lover intrigued so the next time I see him, there may be rope play. I guess I’ll have to send him videos to watch before then.

  2. You know, I hadn’t thought of how it might be challenging to take a picture of your own hands in handcuffs haha! It looks like you got them down fairly easily. The red rope is nice! (Also your nails are so pretty!)
    It’s funny how you never used handcuffs before this and also funny how the first ones you ended up using are rope ones, in that case, ha!
    I’m so glad to see you join in with the meme

    I hope you are okay? I know how disheartening and lonely it can feel when your Dominant is suddenly absent like that. Have you talked to him about this? Maybe it’s something to raise. I know I would have been so happy if my sub (not that I have one or want one as I am one myself!) had tied her hands thinking it might please me. Do you live far apart? Hopefully once the lockdown eases you can see each other again and he can tie you!

    1. I was going to clip my nails today haha. My hands will bump into things and I’ll yell out a series of expletives as it’s my nails that sustained the impact.

      I’ve always been intrigued by bondage. There’s this rigger on Fet by the name of Sam, I believe and I often find myself mesmerized by his work. So I had wanted to join the meme, but sex shops have been closed and I didn’t want anyone rummaging through my packages if I order them online. I can just imagine my mom going, “What is this rope for?” Haha.

      I did talk to Sir. He’s been really busy with work and other things going on at home. I did tell him that I felt lonely. He’s extremely far away. He lives closer to you than to me. If only I could teleport.

      1. Haha, ah yeah the pain of long nails!

        Lol! Talk about invasion of privacy parents. I’m glad the shops have opened again then haha.

        Oh, I’m glad you got to talk. Life does get extremely busy doesn’t it? I always struggle with that a bit in dynamics. Hopefully you’ll end up living closer at some point!

        1. Yeah, life always seems so busy. I miss the days of Sir spontaneously playing with me. I’d just be happy being able to see him in the near future.

  3. Yayyyy for doing a self tie! Love the pictures 🙂
    ~ Marie

    1. Thank you. Hopefully, I’ll be able to learn more. I showed lover the photos and he’s intrigued. I think I might be turning my vanilla lover into a bit of a kinkster haha.

  4. I quite like those pictures! Hopefully you will be able to try ut some rope with a partner in the future.

    1. Thank you. I’m hoping my lover will be interested in tying me up. Although, it sounds like he wants me to tie him up haha.

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