Sometimes I troll on the Whisper App. I am a strong woman and if I’m feeling a bit savage, I will put weak men in their place. This doesn’t make me any less of a submissive. It just means that I don’t submit to just anyone. I submit to one man.
Comments I receive at times revolve around my relationship with my Dom. I don’t appreciate others interjecting themselves into that relationship when I didn’t ask for their opinions. I am rather defensive when moronic men suggest that my Dom is not good enough and I should instead sub for them. If my Dom was not “good enough” then I would have never submitted to him. If I chose to submit, then it should tell you that I found him worthy of receiving my submission.
My Dom is one of the most important people in my life. To think anything less of him is asinine. I get that people are rather desperate and will say anything to try to steal what is not theirs, but to say such to a submissive like me doesn’t fly with me. If someone were to trash talk my Dom, of course I’d be upset. He’s my Dom. MY DOM!
In a way, a submissive’s world revolves around her Dominant. Her utmost desire is to please him. A submissive, for the most part, idolizes her Dominant, places him on a pedestal. Her adoration of him is strong and to many may seem like she worships him. When you look to someone in that way, I think it’s only natural to defend their honor.
He’s my Dominant and I know he doesn’t need me to fight his battles for him, but if someone insinuates that he’s not a good Dom then I feel a need to say something. You should really mind your own business and work on your own craft. I won’t flat out call someone an idiot nor would I tell other submissives that they have a bad “Dom.” I adore my Dom and I have no intention of leaving him for a desperate wannabe.
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