BDSM, Life

Fishing Expedition

For some reason, I was thinking about fishing. I don’t fish. I get seasick and the thought of even touching a fish makes me sick. I can’t even swim so I stay away from the water.

Fishing is also something that takes patience and I clearly have no patience. I guess yesterday, I had compared the way a Dominant would lure a submissive in to fishing. Dominants must have a lot of patience.

I remember at the very beginning of my relationship with my Dom, I made a comment at something he said. I remember I told him, “What a charmer.” I don’t exactly remember what he had said to elicit such a response. I’m not turned on by sleaziness. I can see right through it and I’m very skeptical of men who are like that. My Dom was not sleazy, just quite charming haha.

It was a lot easier for me to trust my Dom. Though, I’m not usually a very trusting person. I have a lot of trust issues due to my past.

I think that maybe most submissives wouldn’t have come to trust a Dominant so quickly so I could imagine getting the submissive hooked would require a lot more patience. One of the biggest things for me is my Dom’s personality. It’s not always sexual…don’t get me wrong, I’d very much like to be fucked my Dom over and over again, but he also cares about other aspects of my life. It’s not like these string of questions one feels obligated to ask; he seems to be genuinely interested in what I tell him. I think that level of sincerity is what draws me closer to him.

Yours Truly,

The Sassy Sub Daily

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i'm just your average girl with a dirty mind. young, asian and submissive...does that pique your interest? constantly in a battle with myself whether to stay confined by my cultural values or to break free like the freak i am.

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  1. Truth, that is how she hooked me too. Casual questions, and sincerity.

  2. You can say it is getting hooked but it is not like you didn’t want it in the first place. I see it is that you have want that needed to to filled I just so happen to have a need as well and we came to a common ground. I just don’t to use the word fishing and getting hooked because of my job.

    Phishing the fraudulent practice of sending emails purporting to be from reputable companies in order to induce individuals to reveal personal information, such as passwords and credit card numbers.

    Don’t like phishing. You do make a very good point, Dominates have to be very patient(hate to use the cliche but it holds true) Rome wasn’t built in a day, nether is a submissive. So our patience has to endure the ups and downs, the rights and wrongs, and wins and losses.

    1. Yet so many use references to fishing. It’s like in dating, when one person doesn’t work out, they say, “There’s plenty of fish in the sea.” Even the dating app, Plenty of Fish.

      Or “Dating is like fishing. It’s all catch and release until you find a keeper.” I think D/s relationships are similar in that aspect. A sub may have several Doms before they find right the match. Likewise a Dom may have several subs before they find the right match.

      Not all bait attracts all fish. Some forms of bait are better than others when it comes certain types of fish. Like some Doms have qualities that are more alluring to certain subs. Fish want food which is why the bait is alluring. Once they get a taste of it, they’re hooked. When you find the right Dom, it’s like being hooked. Maybe not so much in the sense of being trapped, but another way of using hooked would be for being addicted.

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