For some reason, I was thinking about fishing. I don’t fish. I get seasick and the thought of even touching a fish makes me sick. I can’t even swim so I stay away from the water.
Fishing is also something that takes patience and I clearly have no patience. I guess yesterday, I had compared the way a Dominant would lure a submissive in to fishing. Dominants must have a lot of patience.
I remember at the very beginning of my relationship with my Dom, I made a comment at something he said. I remember I told him, “What a charmer.” I don’t exactly remember what he had said to elicit such a response. I’m not turned on by sleaziness. I can see right through it and I’m very skeptical of men who are like that. My Dom was not sleazy, just quite charming haha.
It was a lot easier for me to trust my Dom. Though, I’m not usually a very trusting person. I have a lot of trust issues due to my past.
I think that maybe most submissives wouldn’t have come to trust a Dominant so quickly so I could imagine getting the submissive hooked would require a lot more patience. One of the biggest things for me is my Dom’s personality. It’s not always sexual…don’t get me wrong, I’d very much like to be fucked my Dom over and over again, but he also cares about other aspects of my life. It’s not like these string of questions one feels obligated to ask; he seems to be genuinely interested in what I tell him. I think that level of sincerity is what draws me closer to him.
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