A couple of times, I have been asked to be a Domme. I’m brutal, but I am not a Domme. I’ve got a mouth on me and it’s easy to see. I don’t submit very easily, but I’m not a Domme and I’m not even a switch.
I’ve tried to be a Domme once because a guy begged me. He didn’t do anything I asked, he just wanted someone to make him cum. I know he didn’t suck a cock, when he wanted his own to be sucked. He was lying to me and that is a big pet peeve. It was annoying and having to deal with him was a chore. Being a Domme isn’t for me, I find it to be quite a bore.
I’m more into the surrender. I like giving up control, eventually. It’s a bit of a battle to get me there, but once you have me, I’m yours to keep.
I guess people find my personality to be like that of a Domme, but for me it’s not a turn on. I have a rather strong personality. I’m sarcastic and don’t take well to idiots. There’s no thrill for me in ordering people around sexually. Some people don’t believe me when I say that it’s not for me and they continue to persist that they want to serve me.
I don’t care if you orgasm. I don’t care if you’re denied. I don’t care if your balls are tied up all of the time. If someone gets pleasure out of it, then good for them. If I suggest a task, it’s not for my pleasure. It’s not carefully thought out, I just blurt it out. Sometimes I just say things because I know the other person’s reaction will be funny. They’ll get worked up because it’s embarrassing, but I only agree with what they had already suggested doing.
But I’m not a Domme. I’m sorry to disappoint. I’m submissive to my Dom for as long as he wants me.
The Sassy Sub Daily